Jamaica Kincaid, List of Do's and Don'ts

When you see some one walking down the street with a frown, smile; If you come across someone sitting alone go sit with them; if someone that comes across as troubled don’t make fun, try to help; if no one wants to help out make the first effort to start things off; if someone tries to stop you from doing something good, work around there words; when on the same token, don’t let someone tell you to do something bad, ignore it and do good things; if there is a chance to be the bigger person, do it; if a situation comes up that has to do with hurting anyone try your hardest to help avoid it; anyone and everyone can contribute somehow so don’t be afraid; if anyone ever puts you down then they are not worth your time; no one can stop you because life is a marathon then goes on for miles; never underestimate the power of the mind; if there is ever a moment that you are confused don’t be afraid to ask for help; anything that makes you feel uncomfortable can be changed by the effort you put into it; if you ever start something, anything, don’t stop until it is finished no matter how had it is to complete because the result may be worth it all; at the end of the day don’t dwell on what you did wrong, instead just think about that good; do things that are calming to you rather than distracting; if there is nothing to do, find something to do; when you want to relax and listen to music, try to create your own, pick up a guitar and play; don’t let anyone tell you that your music is bad; in fact, don’t let anyone tell you that anything you like is bad at all; just do what your heart tells you no matter what your mind says.

whip aroung.

The music firing at your heart springs to life like a lion about to pounce. Countless amounts of pain, hell, solves nothing because winning isn’t everything. I get by with feelings of my favorite things to sing.